The Art of Sucking
Felatio, blow job, going down, sucking, or giving head, whatever term you use, the art of sucking dick is easy to master....trust me! With a little bit of trust, knowledge and practice... and the 3rd step IS crucial...becasue practice makes perfect, you will be on your way to an MSD (Master of Sucking Dick) image source
It would appear that giving head requires no skill. One would think all it takes is to unzip the pants, put the dick in your mouth and start sucking like there's no tomorrow. Spit on it, get it hard, wet and do some deep throat action in between. And, there are social messages about giving head to suggest that guys LOVE it so much, they don't care about technique. In reality, knowing how to read your partner(s), what to do to him and when to do it makes all the difference. Remember, sucking dick can be fast and dirty, or slow and seductive. Here are a few tips (from personal extensive research) to get you and him going:
1. Get Him Clean!
If you are new to sucking dick, the taste, smell (or SIZE) may be worrisome. Men can have a strong scent, especially after a hard workout, so if possible, suggest a sexy shower together, or add a little bit of flavor by spreading sum personal flavored lubricant (my favorite is grape!)
2. Get comfortable!
You don't know how long you're going to be working on that bad puppy or how long you're going to be on your knees and sucking dick can put a strain on your neck and jaw (believe me!) So, if he's standing up, gently get him to relax on his back while you get to work!
3. Tease with touch!
While your mouth may be busy on his jong, don't forget about the rest of the package! Use your hands to caress his balls, thighs, ass and chest. Make eye contact and be aware of his verbal and facial reactions.
4. Lick before you slurp!
Get a taste of the head of his dick (it's the most sensitve part) use your tongue to play with his nut sack, roll it around your lips and tongue, use a lot of saliva and watch him melt in your mouth!
5. Put it in your mouth!
Wrap your juicy lips on his dick. Gently slide down his shaft (make sure your lips cover your teeth!) Begin a wet up and down sucking motion using your tongue, lips, saliva. Make sure your tongue is flat for nice wide and wet strokes! Watch out for the gag reflexes! Keep focused and stay with it for a while for maximum consistent pleasure before changing to another position.
To swallow or not to swallow. The decision is completely yours, however, make sure to tell your partner if you are not comfortable with it. Ask him to tell you when he's about to cum, this way you can continue to give him a hand job or lick his balls as he is cuming.
Oral sex is NOT risk free. Many men choose so suck dick without a condom and measuring the exact risk of HIV transmisstion from oral sex is difficult. For more information, check out this site for risks associated to oral sex.
Enjoy the sucking! (i know i do!)
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well i like to suck dick and also be safe with it to i like the fact that there are new trick to giving head and still being safe about it and using condoms and getting the sensation with the comdom. well alot of people like to give head without being protected because they feel like they dont have the full affect.i learned that when i was messing with someone who did not like using condoms while getting head.so i will use these trick on a man when it comes to it.
PhDick Candidate says
WWWWOOOOOWWWWW!!! I can't believe how EDUCATION AND HOT!!! that post was/is. Whew! I think I need some "me" time. Sucking dick/cock/trade/whatever is definitely not mastered by everyone. My dick has been subjected to some not so pleasant experiences with inexperienced mouths. I must say to your first instruction that sometimes the "smells" after a workout, jog, wrestling around, and so on can be quite the turn on - to an extent. I've debated the whole swallow or not with some of my friends. The taste of dick is great and sometimes the cherry or "whip cream" on the sundae is the "nut". It's not always sweet so sometimes it's better to just have the topping ON you instead of IN your mouth.
Secret tip: Drinking pineapple juice makes your cum taste sweeter...so I heard. I don't know about you, but I'm not having a pina colada with every guy I meet!!!
DulceDeLeche says
kp, thank your for your comment. I agree that many men don't use condoms for oral sex. While transmistion via oral sex is low, the possibility still exist. And if we are having some anonymous encounter, it's probally wise to play it on the safe side. However, like anything else we do, it's an individual choice, and there are some things we can do to reduce the risk such as:
1) Spit don't swallow
You don't want to get caught by surprise from your partner, besides, the taste is not that great, although i hear some people really get off by it.
2) no harms to gums
What i mean by this is that, be careful not to brush your teeth, eat chips or candy as it my cause tiny cuts in the gums and tongue before sucking dick.
3) Wet it up
use a lot of saliva, spit on that bad puppy and get it really wet!
If you have any other tips, let me know!
DulceDeLeche says
PhDick Candidate,
thank you for your comment. I think i was needing some "me" time as well after writing that blog! I've heard so many of my friends mention how they have been subjected to terrible blow jobs. (of course my immidate reaction is to kiss it and make it all better) however, i usually recommend for them to talk with their partner, use verbal cues such as " i love it when you slowly tease the head of my cock" or " keep doing that, it feels good"
I do agree that the scent of a man can be a huge turn on for many. i guess it all depends on the situation.
PS. do they make pineapple flavored lube???
PhDick Candidate says
DDL, YES, they do make pineapple lube! I think ID Lube makes it.
DulceDeLeche says
PhDick Candidate,
Fantastic!
Anonymous says
IM SOMEONE WHO LIKES 2 PERFORM AND RECEIVE ORAL SEX!THERES MANY DIFFERENT THINGS THAT CAN BE DONE WHILE SUCKING!A LOT OF PEOPLE PREFER NOT TO UJSE CONDOMS WHILE SOME DO!ITS REALLY IMPORTANT 2 BEING THAT THIS IS ANOTHER WAY 2 CONTRACT AN STD SINCE THE DICK IS A PINK PART!THERES DIFFERENT FLAVORED LUBE THAT YOU CAN PUT ON A CONDOM 2 GET RID OF DA TASTE OR A FLAVORED CONDOM!BEING SAFE IS ALWAYS THE KEY TO GOOD AND FUN SEX EVEN THOUGH ABSTINENCE IS THE BEST POLICY BUT NOT EVERYBODY WANTS THAT SO WITH MORE PROTECTED SEX STD RATES CAN DROP!SUCKING ACTUALLY CAN BE FUN WITH A CONDOM TRY IT I HAVE THIS TRICK I PUT A CONDOM ON THE SIDE F MY MOUTH N B4 MY MOUTH TOUCHES ANYTHING THE CONDOM IS ON!LOL ITS FUN N COMES IN HANDY
DulceDeLeche says
Anonymous,
Thanks for your comment. I think i'm gonna have to try that trick! I may need a lot of practice!