A Boy’s Raw Urge for…Affection?



How many times have you felt the urge…the yearning for something…but you didn't quite know what that thing was? For me, the immediate response to this non-identified yearning is to smoke a cigarette, watch some porn, look in my refrigerator, or go online.


On two occasions, I met up with really sexy guys and we wound up talking. Talking! The whole time! It just kinda happened. Guy # 1 came by and we did the requisite shit talk, cut to 3 hours later and we're still chatting away. He was hot enough, but sex never came up. Seriously! Who knew? I assumed it was a fluke until it happened again. It happened the same way…we just kept talking.


I didn't give much thought about it at the time, but in retrospect I think I wasn't looking for anything but someone to talk to. Some affection…some sugar—someone I didn't know who for a brief moment, seemed to care. Then I began to think back to all those other times where me and my buddies would just go at it on sight. No chit chat…just "I want to…and you want to, so let's go!" There must have been times when I sought out sex when sex wasn't what I needed. If people can try to eat their troubles away, then we can certainly try to fuck our troubles away as well.


So I have some questions:

Have you ever used sex to fulfill a non sexual urge, and if so, what are you trying to fuck away?

Have you ever wound up chatting with fuck buddy? What did you talk about?

1 comments:

  1. Anonymous says
    June 7, 2009 at 1:13 PM  

    Plenty of times.You have to chat constsntly with youe fuck buddy so as not to cross any boundaries that have been set B 4 you started fucking and buddying(lol).My fuck buddy and I talk about how we feel 2wards each other and how to keep those feelings in check.Just like reading,talkin' is fundamental


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